Definition of Love According to the Qur'an
According to the traditions of the Prophet, people who are in love tend to always
remembering and calling his beloved (man ahabba syai'an
dzikruhu katsura), the Prophet said, people can be enslaved by love
(Man ahabba syai'an fa huwa `abduhu). The Prophet also said, a hallmark of love
True there are three: (1) prefer to talk with a loved one
compared with others, (2) rather hang out with a
lovable than others, and (3) would rather follow
willingness of a loved one than the wishes of others / self. For
people who had fallen in love with Allah SWT, he prefers
speak to Allah Ta'ala, by reading His Word, rather
mingle with Allah SWT in I `tikaf, and prefer to follow
Allah SWT commands than other orders.
In the Qur'an love having 8 understanding the following explanation:
1. Love is a kind of love mengebu mawaddah passionate, fiery and
"Nggemesi". People who have a love kind mawaddah, wants always
two, reluctant to part and always wanted to quench the thirst of love. He
want to monopolize her love, and barely able to think another.
2. Love mercy is the kind of love a loving, gentle,
ready to sacrifice, and ready to protect. People who have a love of type
Rahmah is more concerned with his loved ones than
to yourself. For him the important thing is the happiness
lover even if he had to suffer. He really understand
shortage lover and always forgive mistakes lover.
Included in the mercy of love is the love between the people concerned
blood, especially the love of parents for their children, and vice versa. Of
was then in the Qur'an, a relative called al Arham, Arham dzawi al,
ie those who have a pure love relationship,
garba comes from a mother's love, called uterus (from the word
rahmah). Since the fetus is a child has been overwhelmed by the atmosphere
psychological affection in a chamber called the uterus.
Furthermore, among the people who have blood relations
recommended to always air silaturrahim, or silaturrahmi meaning
connecting cords of affection. Husband and wife are bound by love
mawaddah and mercy as well as generally faithful to each other physically and spiritually-world
Hereafter.
3. Love mail, is a kind of love for a while passionate,
so suck up all the attention to other matters likely
less attention. Love this type of mail in the Qur'an called
in the context of polygamy in which when you're in love with
the young (an tamilu kulla al mail), tend to ignore to the
long.
4. Love syaghaf. Love is a very deep, natural, original
and intoxicating. Love people who develop type syaghaf (qad
syaghafaha Hubba) could like crazy, forget self and almost
unaware of what is done. The Qur'an uses the term syaghaf
when mengkisahkan how his love of Zulaikha, the wife of Egyptian authorities
the servant, Joseph.
5. Ra'fah love, that deep sense of love to beat
norms of truth, for example, so sorry for the kids
have the heart to wake him for prayer, although one of his defense. Al Quran
call this term when reminded that do not love ra `fah
cause people to not enforce the law of God, in this case
punishment for adulterers (Q/24: 2).
6. Love shobwah, the blind love, the love that drives behavior
perverts without being able to dodge. The Qur'an mentions the term ni when
mengkisahkan how Prophet Yusuf pray that separated
Zulaiha teased every day (please put in jail only),
because if not, over time Joseph also slipped in deed
stupid, wa illa Tasrif `anni kaidahunna ashbu ilaihinna account wa min al
jahilin (Q/12: 33)
7. Love syauq (misses). Term is not from the Qur'an but from
interpreting Hadith Quran. In the letter al `Ankabut paragraph 5
it is said that whoever misses the time will surely encounter God
arrived. The sentence is then expressed desire in prayer ma'tsur
of narrative reported by Ahmad; as'aluka ladzzata wa ila's nadzori wajhika
as syauqa ila wa liqa'ika, I beg to feel the pleasure
looked at the faces and the joy of thy longing to meet you.
According to Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawzi in the book Raudlat al Muhibbin wa
Nuzhat al Musytaqin, Syauq (miss) is the odyssey of the heart to
the lover (Safar al qalb ila al sweetheart), and the flames of love
the fire in the hearts of the lovers, hurqat al mahabbah wa il
tihab naruha fi qalb al muhibbi
8. Love kulfah. the feeling of love with educational awareness
the positive things even harder, as parents
told him to sweep, clean the room itself, although there are
maid. This kind of love is called when stating that the Qur'an
Allah does not burden a person except according to his ability, he
yukallifullah nafsan wus `aha illa (Q / 2:286)